Rabbi Lebovics compares offering $100,000 for a shidduch to an FBI bounty, arguing that appreciation and gratitude toward shadchanim yields far better results than financial incentives.
Rabbi William Lebovics shares candid wisdom about matchmaking incentives and gratitude. Rather than offering bounties, he advocates appreciating the shadchanim who dedicate their time to helping others find their bashert.
The rabbi compares it to a bounty, like the FBI's most wanted posters that offer rewards for capturing criminals.
The rabbi suggests sending flowers with $500 and a thank you note to the people who spent countless hours helping, such as the three Shat Khanim, as this will produce better results.
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